Will I essentially kill my existing offer because I want to actually here another equally compelling potential offer coming.
Is it OK to say, give me a week to decide? Decision is about scope and money. I am wary about telling people this, but at the same time it's my career and I think I should not be playing first come first serve.
Thoughts anyone?

There's a cast for that! (TM)
See the Map of the Universe, search for "offer", look at this cast:
"How Not To Accept An Offer - Chapter 1 - Playing Two Offers Off Against Each Other" https://www.manager-tools.com/2013/01/how-not-accept-offer-chapter-1-pl…
Some of the other casts in the "Offers" constellation may help on the "multiple offers" or "awaiting another offer" issues.
In reply to There's a cast for that! (TM) by Joseph Beckenbach
Thank you! Next time I'll
Thank you! Next time I'll search a bit more.